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Teenage Girl 18/06/27(Wed)06:41 No. 21958 ID: 9450aa
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Two of my friends are fighting.

If I talk to either one--even to advise them how to get along with the other--and the other finds out, they will take it as a betrayal.
If I never make contact with one or the other, they will assume I've taken the other's side and take it as a betrayal.
If I tell either or both not to involve me in their fight, they'll call me a hypocrite for not standing up for my friends and take it as a betrayal.


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Teenage Girl 18/06/30(Sat)03:37 No. 21961 ID: 0f52f2

You still sound determined to hope for an outcome where you keep your friendships as they were, but you have to know damn well already that you won't find any solutions here, least of all not without any context.

If it were truly hopeless, you would have cut your losses already. Maybe you could have some fun with that process and declare something patently ridiculous such as you'll take the side of whoever gives you the best head.

The saddest part is that you've probably already tried the obvious solution to threaten them by saying that neither of them can remain your friend unless they quit fighting, but you realized that they'd rather hate each other than like you. That's got to hurt.


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Teenage Girl 18/07/01(Sun)09:05 No. 21962 ID: 5fc4cd

>>21961
>If it were truly hopeless, you would have cut your losses already.
It's worse than you think. These are adults in their early fourties, and we have professional relationships as well. Cutting either off isn't really an option for me; I wish it were.

Actually, It never occured to me to tell them to stop fighting because I see their conflict as unresolvable: one is tired of the other because of his bad attitude and the abusive relationship he always complains about but won't get out of; the other is fed up with that guy because of his bad attitude and lack of work ethic. It's a wonder they ever became friends to begin with.

>they'd rather hate each other than like you.
I like the way you said this. It might even be true; they both seem intent on using me to get at the other, like divorcing parents use a child.

I'm not asking for suggestions, just venting my /rnb/ about being put in this position against my will.


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Teenage Girl 18/07/10(Tue)05:10 No. 21963 ID: 0f52f2

You reckon it would change anything if you linked those friends to here?


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Teenage Girl 18/07/12(Thu)08:46 No. 21965 ID: ca355e

>>21963
Not likely.

Neither of them are the type to moved by other people's feelings.



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