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Men want to be reminded of home, beauty, serenity, infinite depths and oceans and the nature and organics and the natural flow of life even at the cost of loss of agency haha (I imagine your a cute innocent anime realm), this is why men treat women and children just better than what they really deserve, it's like being a guardian basically, protecting innocence and beauty I guess (I suppose ugly chicks have it pretty tough though, neither do they have a real spine nor the internal honesty or ability to self audit, nor the kindness and selfless protection and service of the males like seen in healthy sexual dynamics, nobody treats them like kids and so they have to stand up for themselves inevitably in this relatively harsh survival environment...)
women want to be reminded of passion, thrills, excitement, enjoyment/play and fucking standing for something instead of being all wishy washy.
I'm not saying you should go out there and mass murder people, but there is beauty to having a spine and being a man. Even if in this world it will most likely means you'll be asked to clash with so many different kinds of niggers, robbers, cheaters, liars and worst of all - those who think they have monopolized strategy and force, yes the future wars will be purely mental, forget your fists, forget... The autist (a baby who swam in high level of prenatal testosterone environment, shifting his brain or her brain towards systemization, logical analysis of systems rather than social organization and adaptation and survival throughsocial positioning/navigation) even if afraid of or incapable of actual combat with hands and legs and rifles.. (although a true wimp will lack the decisiveness required for effective system implementation and fast unyielding adaptation) is still the future apex predator, arguably already is due to all the jewelry over the recent decades, of course there's always time for bravery and what not, I mean what if not testosterone makes one a little less risk averse amirite... but simply just having spine can potentially force you to go to war no matter how non-warlike, like imagine you were 100 times less of a proponent of using Force than Hitler was, literally would rather exhaust a thousand different options first before choosing that. If you have a spine bro you might just realize one lifetime is not enough to convey your communication and negotiation and even if it was, some people just don't want to listen and the only thing they know is violence, game theory and fake gay shit..
but they're dumb and heavy and you're smart, light and agile it is what it is dude it will have to be assymmetric.. they control the resources as well as the mass (npc) opinion.
But every moment that is a peacetime moment - appreciate it so much. Btw war is anything that requires force and forgoes negotiation or communication, some people foster it even in their own family (a good leader will not lead his family towards that kind of dynamic or energy even if that's where the woman tries to pull it in)(some say the only place a woman can lead a romantic relationship in is - the dissolution of the said relationship), a man should never go to war against his woman, because 1. It's gay and 2. It's boring and 3. He'd crush her both physically and psychologically if he wanted to because men are just stronger both physically and mentally. Whatever endeavor you can imagine, at the far right edge of the bell curve of it, it's pretty much always going to be men, be it sports, war, any intellectual or even creative activity - we're just more extreme, less naive, more curious, more honest with ourselves. Why the fuck would you want to go to literal war with your spouse or anyone in your family? Do you not understand what war is and do you not understand how quickly it would end given the power imbalance? And if you're not ending it quickly then you're undecided whether you even want to engage in war and in that case I recommend that you don't. Of course legal systems can get involved, but if you're smart (and smart always wins, except maybe in body memory systems like jujitsu or literal close quarters combat training although even there smart offers bug advantages), you'll 1. Not put yourself in that position in the first place by thinking of her as your intellectual equal and self honesty ability equal 2. Beat her psychologally before she invokes any of the state sponsored bullshit. But again why the fuck would you want a spouse who you go to war with, be a fucking man and show her that if you wanted you could crush her in a true war, but you're simply not interacting with her for that purpose. And you're not willing to give any undue trust or commitments until she demonstrates that's she ain't with you for that either. Although you always have to take it with a grain of salt - fail a shit test and watch her actively rewrite in real time whatever history or solidity you had towards each other - you always have to treat females like kids to some extent - doesn't mean you can't love them, but doesn't mean you give them your gun collection as toys to play with. That said some females have more of a warrior spirit and adventure spirit and heart than 99.999% of anyone right. But still if it becomes romantic with her, it's best to while you respect that masculine part of her, while you don't treat her as a complete goofball kawaii innocence perfection, it's best to still maintain polarity even if that's no longer purely what the relationship is about and she indeed becomes a bit like a brother. Wisdom and discernment bro, not every female is exactly the same even if there are certainly patterns you can notice. The one with a big heart will be more like a brother, but if she's hetero, she'll still want you to treat her like a girl as far as your sexual romantic part of the relationship is relevant to y'all. You can always just engage her platonically and let her outsource the romance part if you really think she's so cool that such an arrangement would interest you. But girls tend to choose retards and faggots and they have no idea what actual masculinity is, they just like the butterflies they get from a guy with psychopathic tendencies and if she's looking up to him, it can be weird treating her as your equal while she's looking up to someone obviously below you in any real metric of realness and masculinity. Guys don't have this issue, so better just look for platonic friends in guys. Well on the other hand you're a bit of a faggot yourself I guess since you're not really looking for *seriousness* in friendship or bigness in adventure, right, you just want innocent and cute shit, no? Nothing wrong with that. Just vibing, enjoying life, community, somewhat of a meaningful friendships, innocence, youth, not examining things too much or too deeply, going with the flow. Honestly it sounds great especially if you have people or systems that would take care of your physical needs, if you take care of yourself, especially with no support like in wilderness - you'll need some spine bro. That's why all those bitches are masculine now in this economy, unless they had a good father who took care and guided them or brothers or good 1st 2nd boyfriend maybe and they're still relatively young - then they can still be innocent and feminine and beautiful. Otherwise they're hardened and not by the most beautiful energies out there.. imagine loosing your innocence yet still being fundamentally nerfed relative to the male population in your ability to be masculine and accept life challenges stoicly and gracefully. Such are most women now. Trying to compete with men on/in it while barely having a clue what it's actually about. Threw away a treasure and a beauty for what? For being second rate at something that is not usually their natural identity in the first place. Although women too can have a beautiful warrior spirit, adventure spirit, and indeed a lot of solidness, integrity, DEFINITION, internal consistency... But as a mostly *feminine* being. Yes that can be immensely attractive and beautiful.
And you could even live the rest of your life like that - in peacetime - just by mostly not even looking at the world and hoping they don't come coming for you, you know like one of those American guys in his imaginary castle, "as long as it don't touch me, my friends or my community or whatever, I'm okay with it - just leave me be and enjoy my life/friends"... I mean honestly, if you have your head in the sand, even having a strong spine you wouldn't necessarily have to go to war with anyone or anything especially if you live somewhere a little bit more remote and a little bit calmer maybe like Scandinavia.. although now it's kind of infected, the baltics maybe or Vietnam or rural Japan, small mountain towns in peru chile argentina, whatever.. stay under the radar, live life on the lower key and either build a family or serve and engage in a relatively small community, preferably local. Simple life right... Fuck alladat battles of future buddhas bullshit, right?
I'm not even against faggots btw nor being an innocent little boy as a man, honestly, I get where ur coming from. But the order in my opinion is such that the masculine is designed such that it's supposed to grow up, the feminine (and we have both parts) stays innocent and cute and kind and pure. Not saying that as you choose to grow up and be that support structure for the people around you and or for humanity you cannot maintain a purity, but inherently you'll have to be willing to be more of an adult, so radical levels of self accountability, blaming EVERYTHING that happens to you as YOUR OWN shortcoming etc. still you can come out of it not completely hardened. But no, it's not really your role to be taken care of and coddled and live in an illusion, not quite. Even as we are all both polarities. There are men more manly than you and they could in theory take care of your innocent little world. I appreciate cute boys for example (no homo, just my own fantasy of having that youth and innocence that I happen to have basically never had) and with the AI stuff that's coming, EVERYONE might just start living in the frame provided by the big daddy skynet or you know the more utopian versions like idk startrek or R2D2 type, damn not many examples of that in media huh lol
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