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27 NYC Spanish male
seeking discrete patient partner MUST BE DL.
Desperately seeking to bottom for the 1st time.
Perhaps make it on going..
220lb, 5'-8" 5" UC hairy chub..
How does one maximize their bottoming skills?
Practice is important, of course, but what are some tricks I can do right from the get-go? I figure I should prepare myself as I might be hooking up with someone in the next week or two.
Yeah, if I'm doing it right my dick is half hard at best. Besides, what I'm doing to my ass feels so much better than anything anyone could do to my dick.
I'm not a lifestyle gay. I'm not a cookie-cutter bi. I'm not sure how to classify myself, I'd like to know. But here's a fantasy, with a preamble.
I like cock, and I like vagina.
I don't have romantic cuddly feelings with guys.
I do have romantic cuddly feelings with girls.
I like to get fucked HARD in my ass, I like to take cock in my throat. I like to be manhandled and basically raped by a guy - one of course who I have had some talk with before to establish the rules, because I do like to have very rough gay sex.
But I don't like "guys" the way I like women.
With women, I want to service them. I want to go down on them, yes, but I also want to make it an experience. I want to massage them, caress them, and make them feel good beyond the sexual aspects. I want to impress women, to surprise them with things that they only fantasize about. I love women, and I want them to feel extraordinary, passionate, and powerful connections.
With men, I want to be submissive. I want to have them rape my throat, rape my ass, cum in me, use me HARD, but I also want them to be men who I trust, who I know are acting as they wish, but who would never actually harm me. They would rape me - hard, violent and mercilessly, but who would, if a safeword was spoken by me, would stop the whole world at that moment to be sure I was OK.
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Pretty sure you're just a straight guy. I think orientation is just your body's preset, but you can cum with anyone as a social mechanism. As a gay guy, if I cum with a girl it feels more like masturbation than sex. Try to pay more attention to how your body reacts with both genders I'd say.
I think that straight repulsion by gay sex is a myth equivalent to racial superiority.
As first responder said - you're bisexual but heteroromantic with a side of male-aligned masochism. But aside from going on Dumblr's ranks, there is really no need to label yourself as such; just tell any male partners you plan to be with that your needs are purely physical and make it clear nothing romantic will happen.
It's not that uncommon. My ex was this way - tried to have a relationship with me but just wasn't into men beyond the sex/into me romantically.
We are still really good friends today and he still loves dick, just doesn't want a husband - he wants a wife.
Could this be society's doing? Possibly but it could also just be the way you are wired too.
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20 years old, Male, USA, bicurious and uncut
Legal in my country =D
Beginning my trap journey soon, still quite mannish, but in a nice way I think.
Ignore dirty mirror lol
25 bi M UK
looking for tips
Who likes my equipment?
Hey guys I need some advice. Like the title suggests I'm a prude. I don't feel very comfortable with strangers so I'm very picky about having sex. That being said, as I write this I have just realized that it's been almost 4 years since my first and last sexual interaction with someone. Needless to say, I extremely horny.
Now I have 2 guys lined up to hook up with. One that I find really attractive, and who I found on a sexual themed site (let's call him hot guy), and then another that I've known for a long time who always dropped hints about us having sex (let's call him good guy). Both of these raise slightly different concerns. Get ready for a ton of text.
My first concert is the initiation. Now like I said with the good guy, he has dropped hints several times, but neither one of us has ever explicitly talked about hooking up. I was just thinking of "seducing" him. Getting into his pants is not really a worry of mine. However the hot guy is a stranger. He asked what I was into; for which I replied "sucking dick and getting fucked", which was to the point, but then after a few messages he asked when I was free to "hang out" which kind of threw me off. Reason I say that is because my first time started off with a lot (and I mean a lot) of innuendo, which made things really awkward when it came time to get it on. He wasn't very forward which made me think "oh shit what if actually just wanted to hang out?", which made me inhibited. Since I never truly hooked up my question is, should I be extremely clear with hot guys and ask if we're going to just do it, or if he wants to actually hang out first? Is that something guys do in planned hook ups, do they hang before fucking? I just don't want to spend however long it takes to get to his place to "watch a movie" and then end up actually just watching a movie. You know what I mean? Like I said I never done this so I'm kind of out of the loop on what to do and/or expect.
Second concern is with cleanliness. I'm going to be bottoming for both guys, and although I know how to get clean (use enema that they sell at drug stores, or buy a reusable at a sex shop, etc...) I'm not sure when to do it. Now me, if I was a top having someone come over , I understand that they may have a life and didn't come set and ready to get it on, so I would expect them to take their time in the bathroom if need be. My experience however has taught me that not everyone is as "understanding". Now if hot guys just wants to get it on, then this won't really be a concern since I'll just get ready right before leaving to meet up. But if he wants to hang out before then it may be a problem. Good guy also might not be a "from my house to his house" trip. I actually might be out and about before meeting up with him and going to his place. Since the e
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OP here. I actually forgot I made this post but then saw it the other day when I was going to ask a suggestion on something. Here's what happened,I figured like >>98540 said I was just over thinking too much (which seems like is a thing I do in general) so I went to meet the "good guy". I couldn't do it though. I just don't find him attractive enough. I drove all the way there and then we just watched a movie and I left. It was so dumb. I don't know I just can't do it. Every time I'm horny I think of calling him and trying again, but then I jerk off and I'm over it.
Like I got myself a dildo after that (which is a bit too big but that's another story)and I ride it and I'm hard when I do it, and it's great so I want to do that with someone. However it seems I much rather ride my dildo than someone I don't have a strong attraction/connection with.
People I know are having sex on their first dates, meanwhile I don't even feel comfortable making out till the second date. Part of me thinks I shouldn't care and just be me, but then the other part thinks the me I am now is messed up somehow.(shit that rhymed) *sigh* There I go ever thinking things again I guess.
>>99109 Sounds to me like there's a disconnect between the head and the heart. If I can be so bold, you seem as if you want to have sex with someone you think physically beautiful and internally beautiful. Hang out with the hot guy, be clear that you want to get to know him a little before sex, think of it as a friend with benefits.
With sex, just always do what you like. That's the most important thing. In life as well.
At the tender age of 22, I think I'm embarking on, for the first time in my life, a potentially long-term relationship.
He's my age, quite intellectual, and has gotten out of a 3.5-year relationship last summer.
We get along famously. However, I'm worried that my inexperience in and disdain towards romance, my lustful nature, and my generally solitary lifestyle are going to create problems.
I'd appreciate any advice you might have for me either general or on these particular points of worry of mine.
I would say just be honest with him. Let him know that you're fresh into this and that you expect to not know what you're doing. Hopefully, he'll help guide you and he'll be more forgiving when you stumble.
Everything's fine, the sex was great harharharhar
And I'm doing fine with romance, surprisingly.
We don't speak very often, but when we do, it takes hours, if not the whole day.
The relationship isn't head-spinning, but it's rather nice and stable.
Perhaps during summertime, when our classes are ended, we'll spend more time together.
The most important thing is that you like each other and show it.
Hey all, Curious virgin here.
Only thing I've dared to put in me so far is a few fingers. I was wondering exactly how clean anal sex is? I mean lets be honest you do shit from there...
Would I be okay with nothing more than a decent shower before taking a cock or is there something more I should do?
If you're using a firehose, the pressure can kill you. But a showerhead, faucet, or even a gardenhose wouldn't be dangerous unless you found yourself unable to remove it.
I've been applying enemas for years since I learned their effects for cooling off your body temperature, and frankly a deep cleaning like Red Arrow suggested is purely for the sensation of taking so much water.
You don't need fancy equipment. A detachable showerhead like your picture shows is suitable. You only really need to clean out the rectum, which is the part of your colon that tells you to find a restroom immediately.
For the most part, you can't control the contractions through the rest of your intestines, so if water enters these areas, be prepared for the literal shitstorm. The further up the intestines you go, the less solid and digested things appear. If you put up with it, once you're clean you can actually take more water without getting cramps.
Of course, if you're only interested in the cleanliness aspect, your job is much simpler. Unless you have IBS or some other colon issue, your body is pretty good about keeping things out of your rectum until the last minute, even during playtime. Here are some steps to follow for quick and easy cleaning:
1. Take a dump. This will get the solids out without worry.
2. Sit down in the shower. Optimally, raise your legs around the faucet. You don't need a showerhead, just running water.
3. Let the water run at a comfortable temperature. If you're opting to use the faucet, make sure the water is hitting your hole. If you're using the showerhead, hold it over your hole with one hand.
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What's with the people here saying it's EVER okay to not VERY THOROUGHLY clean before any anal? There shouldn't be anything anywhere in there. No, a little shit is not fucking okay. There shouldn't even be any smell at all. Whether condoms are used or not should not make any difference on cleaning.
What the fuck man?
1. When you poo, squat with feet directly on toilet seat (optional but optimal)
2. FOLD toilet paper and dampen slightly w/sink and wipe with small strokes back & forth
3. Repeat step 2 until "residue" does not come off on paper
4. Wipe w/ dry tiolet paper so as not to chafe
5. Do anal secks
That's my dick.
Oh my god. so beautiful. I just wanna worship that. That cock could fuck me, my wife and my mother I'd love to see that. I just want to obey that cock. I wanna be bred by that cock. I think I'm in love!
Holy fuck, please breed my ass
This sounds stupid but it's a serious question. I never send nudes historically, never. But lately I have my own room and I've been hanging around naked and noticing I look pretty good sometimes. So I want to take a picture to show it to someone, but I have no one appropriate to send em to... Where do I start?
me, I'll be the judge but if your fake then g away.
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I can understand that, it can be scary putting yourself out there. I was raised Catholic, and I am still am not comfortable with my sexuality. Given the current hate out there, I'm not sure if I'll be able to show myself off.