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crossdresser here. Really young and really sub. I can't be dom whatsoever. skype is alex_pride69 add the us account
How does one maximize their bottoming skills?
Practice is important, of course, but what are some tricks I can do right from the get-go? I figure I should prepare myself as I might be hooking up with someone in the next week or two.
I found it best to start on my side. We kind of blend foreplay and penetration. He lubes up, I'd loosen up like I'm pushing out, and he'd bob the head of his penis at my anus, gently prodding. I'd let him know when he could go a little farther or when to pause. All the while he's biting my shoulders and being grabby and I love it. It's basically foreplay to get me relaxed and ready for penetration without using finger or whatnot to stretch me. We don't use condoms so his precum helps the tip stay lubed throughout the prodding.
At the tender age of 22, I think I'm embarking on, for the first time in my life, a potentially long-term relationship.
He's my age, quite intellectual, and has gotten out of a 3.5-year relationship last summer.
We get along famously. However, I'm worried that my inexperience in and disdain towards romance, my lustful nature, and my generally solitary lifestyle are going to create problems.
I'd appreciate any advice you might have for me either general or on these particular points of worry of mine.
Yeah, it's awkward when you're with 'em and they wanna fuck every night and you just wanna sleep or draw or something.
I would say just be honest with him. Let him know that you're fresh into this and that you expect to not know what you're doing. Hopefully, he'll help guide you and he'll be more forgiving when you stumble.
Everything's fine, the sex was great harharharhar
And I'm doing fine with romance, surprisingly.
We don't speak very often, but when we do, it takes hours, if not the whole day.
The relationship isn't head-spinning, but it's rather nice and stable.
Perhaps during summertime, when our classes are ended, we'll spend more time together.
Is there anything I can do to increase penile sensitiviy? I'm circumcised and I've never been able to cum without using my hand and flexing abdominal/pelvic/leg muscles; I've topped bareback for about 30 minutes before and felt like I was no closer to orgasm than I was when I started.
I have had hormonal issues before, but my T levels are normal according to my doctor (600-700 range) every time I have tests done now.
same here, OP--circumcised as a newborn, have to force orgasms out most of the time, and fucking takes forever because the glans on my dick is almost entirely deadened to sensation and there's nearly zero inner foreskin left on the shaft.
what I've been working on, and what I've heard gives good results (better than almost anything else) is "foreskin restoration," which stretches out the remaining skin on your shaft into a makeshift foreskin that works and feels almost as good as a real one. it can't grow back what's been cut off or replace the nerve endings, but it CAN resensitize the inner foreskin remnant (the extra sensitive part on your shaft inbetween the rim of the glans and the circumcision scar) and the head. it's not perfect, but it sure as shit is better. I'm not the whole way there yet, but it's improving
There are a few notable success stories about regrowing your foreskin. I need to try it soon enough.
Hey all, Curious virgin here.
Only thing I've dared to put in me so far is a few fingers. I was wondering exactly how clean anal sex is? I mean lets be honest you do shit from there...
Would I be okay with nothing more than a decent shower before taking a cock or is there something more I should do?
The best answer would be to ask the person you will be with.
Personally, i like not-showered/not cleaned boys :)
I use one of these:
I'll put some warm water in it, lube up the tip with a little lube (or saliva), get on the toilet, turn it upside down, insert, and squeeze.
How much water I use depends on whether or not I've pooped yet that day. If I've already had a bowel movement that day, I know there's probably just little pieces left in the rectum, so I fill it up to the 100 mL line, and expel the water as soon as I've emptied the bottle into my rectum and removed it. I don't have problems with the water staying in for a long time if I use a smaller amount.
If I haven't pooped yet that day (or had a smaller than normal bowel movement) and don't feel the need to, I'll kind of force a movement by filling up the bottle, then emptying about one half of it inside me. I wait about a minute before expelling the water. After a few minutes of draining as much of the water as possible, I use the remaining half in the bottle. If this much water is used, some of the water remains in the rectum/sigmoid colon for about another 1-2 hours. I have had to do it quickly and go somewhere before--I've made sure not to pass gas for a while afterwards. If I need to go somewhere, I'll just use the toilet 2-3 hours later and expel the remaining water.
I also like to use these:
Whenever I leave the toilet to make sure there's no residue or scent.
I've been using this technique for a while, and it keeps me pretty clean for sex. My BF loves to rim me.
There are a couple caveats: you shouldn't douche/enema too often. It can eventually cause atrophy of the muscles in the walls of the large intestine, making it more difficult to have normal bowel movements. Also, don't strain when you are trying to empty all of the water. It will slowly trickle into the rectum--you just have to wait. If you strain trying to push all of it out, you may cause hemorrhoids over time.
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It depends on what you're doing. If you want to go bareback and/or have things completwly ckean, ana enema is what you need. However, if you're planning to use a condom, just taking a shit and rinsing about 30 minutes beforehand will usually be enough. Note, however, that you shouldnt take it out whatever is in your ass a lot, as this can create suction and other 'problems'. If you don't use an enema, expect a little mess, but just pull the whole thing off at once inside a paper towel, and there will be virtually no mess.
I decided to give me a strict prostate orgasm (without touching my penis at any time), do you could give me some tips? I tried, but I cant ejaculate
I'd love to see some responses to this too. I can't ever tell if i'm even hitting my prostate :/
I don't think it's possible for everyone.
You need a huge amount of willpower, patience, and energy for it, not to mention long enough fingers.
It's much easier to use a dildo (or someone else).
Besides, not all people have sensitive prostates. For example, me. I can feel that there is a small difference, but the amount of pleasure I get from it is quite small, and the only visible effect is precum (which I don't normally get, so that's a bonus).
Considering there are people out there who can orgasm from simply getting their nipples tweaked (and people like me who are not sensitive in organ other than their penises), I guess the prostate business depends on the individual as well.
Tried with a vibrator and even a prostate massager... tried for like an hour and I got nothing out of it. I've had boyfriends that have ograsm'd from me fucking them. I wish I could do it too... :(
This is a long one, It's something that's been bothering me immensely since it happened and I just need to vent, I just need some advice. Sorry for my grammar, im pretty distraught.
6 Years ago, I met a guy on the internet. I live in the us, and he lived in the UK. He was bisexual and was in a long distance relationship with some chick he barely talked to, around two years later, she fell in love with someone else and dumped him. Even though their relationship at that point boiled down to having a week of pity sex once every month, he was distraught for months.
By this time we had gotten pretty close,I supported him as much as I could through his breakup,(I knew it wasn't going to last to begin with) and I THOUGHT that I loved him. about 5 months later, I had confessed my feelings for him, and he said he felt the same way. We slowly became emotionally dependent on each other. He helped me through my schizophrenia diagnosis. He was the one person that I felt that I could act like myself around and not be judged. The one person who could actually *get* me. He loved me, and I loved him, but we both knew we didn't have a "relationship" because we had no feasible way of being *together*.
A few months later he moves in with a roommate. This roommate funds a trip four months ahead of time for him to come over to the states and see me. Me and him get a lot closer, We start saying "I love you" more often, our feelings become a relationship... or so I thought.
That month, I join a guild on guild wars 2, He meets this chick through the mumble, I'll call her Creamy. Creamy has ptsd, and two other boyfriends. Neither of which interact with her in a meaningful way on a daily basis.She introduces my boyfriend to the idea of "polyamory", dispite the poor quality of both her relationships. They fall in love after one meeting at a cafe. A couple weeks before hes set to come over he "falls in love" with her other boyfriend as well. (in the course of a week) They have a meetup. He tells me he'll be there for a couple days, three at most. He ends up being there for a week and a half, where he largely ignores most of my texts, which I can accept because his blackberry doesn't vibrate or flash when he uses the Steam app. I question him when he gets back, I ask him if he really loves me, if his idea of "love" is to fuck two people he barely knows for a week. He says he loves me, but (despite being a fucking "writer") He can't explain it to me in words.
Que the week of his arrival, we meet each other in person after six years. It's awkward at first, but we soon get used to one another. My parents treat us to a ball game, a day trip to new york city (which he hated. We take couple trips to rural Maryland and two trips to DC. He says he loves me, we kiss, we play video games. We have sex.
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Thing is this kind of suff sucks a lot, but sometimes that's how things go.
Sometimes when we idealize a relationship too much, we can't understand how things go out in real life, I tink that's what's happened.
He was a gigantic cunt, you made your mistakes too, this should be a learning experience, even if it hurts too much right now.
The best thing you can do is to cut your ties to him, and go take care of yourself.
The thing about a relationship you start online is that it's never going to be the same as it is in person. You also can never tell if you will have "chemistry". A lot of people might not agree with this, but it's basic evolutionary principal that people are most attracted to those with complimentary and differing genetic profiles. It explains why you can be friends with a guy you have a lot in common with, but then really, REALLY want to fuck that guy you just met. It's a completely unconscious reaction and you can't control it. He couldn't control that he just wasn't into you in a physical way.
Anyway, while I hate to typecast, I've never met a bisexual who wasn't a "I'll fuck anyone at anytime" type of guy. I'm sure there exists some who are perfectly monogamous and passioante, but every bisexual I've ever known has been a selfish prick who, while he might have gay sex on occasion, is a "top-only" and won't even bother giving you a reach-around. He's just out to put his dick somewhere warm and doesn't care where. Polyamory is another red-flag; I won't touch that shit with a thirty-nine-and-a-half-foot-pole, and neither should you.
Personally, I think you'd be better off just giving up on this online thing. I know I'm sounding like an old fart, but I really am starting to believe that it doesn't actually work. Go out and meet some flesh-and-blood guys. It sucks about your illness, but look at the bright side: you live in a part of the country where you won't get lynched for holding hands in public with a guy, and you're clearly out to your parents who are 100% supportive. Very few gays are lucky enough to have both of those. It'll get better.
Finally, don't be emotionally dependent on anyone. It's simply not a good way to live. You're strong enough to survive and thrive on your own.
should've played a better game
I recently found a video of my brother's girlfriend giving him head. I've never seen my brother in a sexual way, but after seeing his cock I cant get it out of my head.
him on the left and me on the right
same age, ive never came as hard as i did when i first watched it
post the vid pls
I have also seen my olders' brother dick and its small.. my father got small also haha it runs in the family
I'm not sure if anyone else has this issue but I have this perpetual sense of boredom. Even hookups and general sex doesn't seem to interest me as much. My libido is very much intact, I'm horny all the time, but usually, most guys that seem to hit me up are minute men or do quickies. I'm not asking for a date or anything, but is it too much to want more than taking a 10 minute trip for like 2 minutes of play and then go? No sex is better than bad sex, especially if it's some risky quick one night stand. It doesn't help that there is jack shit to do here. Age and body type isn't the issue, nor is topping or bottoming. It seems to be a more general thing where nothing just make me light up with excitement. I think it may be time to pack up and go elsewhere before it affects me any further, any input, good or bad, would be appreciated
Anybody have Toilets of Kiev (2009)? Only can find it at filemonster and don't wanna pay that price for it. Maybe it has an alternative title?
Bamp bamp bamp! post it OP