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Holy shit! A new /777/? Why, it's a Christmas miracle, kids! Found ## Admin ## 14/12/19(Fri)22:32 No. 1 [Reply] Stickied

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Clearly I'm a touch useless, and need some help to make myself a better person, someone whose more well rounded. Someone who can change /777/ more than twice a year, essentially.

Regardless, go nuts and do what you normally do! To suggest future /777/s use this thread: https://7chan.org/7ch/res/4700.html

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Useless 15/06/27(Sat)15:51 No. 550

This. Don't disappoint me mods.

Useless 15/11/25(Wed)20:57 No. 856 [Reply]

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Hello, I have never posted on this before. Last year I started having an issue, I had this thought that would randomly pop up in my head, I highly dislike the word (or rather sound) I am forced to hear, so I won't actually say what it is. It usually comes when I am out in the morning getting my first cig, but when others are around when I smoke or listen to music, and sometimes when I get nervous it comes sometimes. I've read that you are supposed to ignore it and that I have to meditate, which helped greatly, my doctor also prescripted me a larger dose of anti-dopamine pills. But the pills had no effect. I'd like to know if you guys know how to fix the issue, since I am going under morphine next month, and I don't want to end up saying it when I wake up By the way, I don't have schizophrenia

Useless 15/11/26(Thu)16:05 No. 857

There's nothing wrong with voices as long as you have acknowledged they're just that, voices. The only time they present a problem is when you start giving them power over you.

Everybody hears voices, doesn't mean we listen to them.

Useless 15/11/26(Thu)16:17 No. 859

So there isn't a foolproof way of dealing with it? I just have to keep doing what I've been doing, meditating and such?

Useless 15/11/26(Thu)21:23 No. 860

You're not an assertive person are you, you need to take control of the life you're given. Next time you hear it, look at yourself in the mirror and tell the voice you're hearing to shut the weld up. Afterwards, tell yourself aloud (whilst you're looking in the mirror) that you're the 'wolfing boss and you're in control of your life. Hell, do that every time you pass your reflection and I guarantee by the new year you'll have a sense of power over your life you never knew of.

Useless 15/11/18(Wed)23:43 No. 844 [Reply]

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Hello 777,

It's time to post here for once. I don't know if anyone can even help such an insane mess but here goes. I had an absolutely brilliant childhood, infact, it was so good that it hurts to even post something like this because there is a constant feeling of guilt that nothing has amounted to what has been bestowed on me. Born into a family with some money, great, extremely smart and loving parents. No abuse or bullying etc etc. However, somewhere, somewhere back in time, something just seemed to go wrong. In my mind or something, and just started drifting and losing my identity. I bombed school completely... Not even sure how but that's what happened. I started getting into Satanism and shit and it went absolutely terrible from there. Maybe this is what happens when you become evil or something. Now I stare at numbers all day thinking that it's god talking to me and shit. Like everything happens spontaneously without causality. Everytime I think something, anything at all, it is responded immediately with something in reality that relates exactly to it. I have no hobbies, feel generally nothing, think nothing, there is just nothing to me but some kind of moving shell. It's very strange and it feels like suicide is probably the correct thing for the universe. However, this would never happen as I'm looking after someone who was dying with cancer and support my parents how I can with my work. Do you ever just wake up in the morning and think 'Huh, There is absolutely no reason for me to be alive anymore but I'm NOT depressed'. It's a constant slipping through time with nothing to hold onto and I see myself dying in the mirror each day. Oh, some background. 21 year old, lived in a couple of different countries and been at like, 40 or 50 different adressess and schools. Abused drugs early on in life and got black-out drunk a couple of times. Would anyone even relate? I can't actually think because the internal voice in my brain has died and if my eyes we're blown out their sockets now, I don't think I'd even know that I were alive. This is a huge ramble that probably doesn't make any sense but eh, pathetic as fuck

Useless 15/11/24(Tue)01:50 No. 853

Don't invent problems for yourself. It sounds like you have a lot of idle time if you just stare at numbers. Go to school, get a job, or fill your time with meaningful projects.

You decide the meaning of your life.

Useless 15/11/16(Mon)11:39 No. 835 [Reply]

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Back in the old days of Yahoo (2003-2009), I had some pretty kickass times talking to people from around the world and even had chicks asking me out. Right now though, I'm on a soul searching journal to make peace with my past and move on by apologizing for my long absence and all the things I said or did with ones I lost and even trying to reunite with old connections. However, reconnecting with past friends and trying to get a hold of my exes to apologize to them have been unsuccessful.

The two questions that keep bothering me time from time is "Is it even worth it?" and "Should I just forget about them?"

Right now, I have a decent amount of close friends and hangout with them every week and back then during those Yahoo! days I didn't have any. But connecting with the old friends I had awesome times with would be cool, but I'm not sure if I should just leave it be.

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Useless 15/11/18(Wed)20:20 No. 843

I'm not scared to reconnect with old friends, but after all the "imperfect" I have done, I just have the feeling it's better to just be. It's just a hunch though.. I think I'm doing better and they're doing better without me. Think about it Useless, if we had good times laughing together, being there for you when your significant other left you, and haven't spoke to you for 3 months due to being busy with academics and enjoying my life, would you not feel shitty? Would that not make me a foul-weather friend if I contacted you whenever I would be having bad time but at the same time you made me feel better?

If anything, I would be very grateful for you being there for me and I would be very sorry to have not communicated with you for a long time whether it be enjoying my life or studying for finals.

Wouldn't you consider me socially lazy or superficial if you were a close friend of mine?

Useful 15/11/21(Sat)08:45 No. 848

Care for the present, the future is assured, when that is done so is the past.

I confess we do have similar predicaments in life, friends are very important to the individual who feel complete with them and the significant other.

They are doing better and they're doing better without me, then live and let live. However, the mere act of saying it seems you are caring.

Useless, I would consider you to be an introvert and the act of keeping in touch after months shows the care. But, we fear for the stranger who speaks for notion and profit.

Go and recreate slowly, find meaning in your passions and aspirations. In the journey you will find those who do.

Useless 15/11/24(Tue)01:46 No. 852

Probably not worth the effort. You lose connections for a reason.

Is there something wrong with me? Useless 15/11/15(Sun)05:44 No. 834 [Reply]

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1 year ago i fell in love with a girl i knew in a party, things ended up badly and i ended up with a broken heart. we only talked for as little as 8 months and i still feel things for her, is something wrong with me? Also, i even tried to talk to 4 different girls and i felt nothing compared to what i felt with her

Useless 15/11/16(Mon)18:03 No. 838

Honestly, you sound like you're 12...
>i even tried to talk to 4 different girls
... and pathetic.

That aside, two questions come to mind, have you been in serious relationships with other girls and did you 'wolf her (and was she your first)? Your answers to those questions will say a lot more about your mentality than "I was in love and she broke my heart".

Useless 15/11/16(Mon)19:21 No. 839

>is there something wrong with me?
you're human
you got it bad for a girl
you aren't fucking other girls so you're still thinking about that one girl
you're normal
talk to five women a day for a week, and you'll feel better, but it doesn't get better until you're fucking

Useless 15/11/22(Sun)02:49 No. 850

Ur an fagit

depressive shit Zero 15/09/25(Fri)11:24 No. 732 [Reply]

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Tried my best, have been deealing with depression and self harm lately. But I kind of hate psychologists, don't feel like they can do much for me.
And it feels like having cancer, you know you are going to die, but everyone else enjoys keeping you alive, keepeing you suffering, is always them an never you. They decide what do you want and what should you do. Pic unrelated (I just like old books). Maybe I just need some one to talk to, or even just writing it all.

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Useless 15/11/12(Thu)21:46 No. 830

I recently also came to conclusion that judging myself by others' standarts is the cause of my pain but unfortunately I still believe that my fears are justified. I'm just aware that during the past 4 years I've became miserable in every field of my life so logically I must be inferior to others.
I believe that the world outside my mind is real and I still hope that my brain has an error I have to fix with pills. I don't think I'am as strong as you to simply "meditate myself out of it".

Zero 15/11/13(Fri)05:36 No. 831

je suis decu!
There is no human I know that doesn't have problems of some sort. Diagnosis of people above or below is moral blasphemy, you can't be punished for considering yourself inferior, but that doesn't mean you are doing something right.

Problems don't solve with pills (usually pills are only given when the individual doesn't have any option, basically retarded), pills are the end game.

I am not strong! I am just what I need to be, what I want to be... a few posts before someone called me a faggot, maybe I am, but sure I don't care.

Zero 15/11/13(Fri)05:45 No. 832

My recomendation for now is ABC, its maybe your best option. Read carefully:

A is any situation
B is yours
C is the coclusion
Thay are read A B C, not in any other way.C also implies the course of action, how you feel about it and what you do about it or against it.

NOW B IS THE KEY: B is your metacognitive state, is how you think. B is like clay, your clay, don't let anybody control how you think and you will realise real problems.

Now this aint at all my "philosophy", I am just smart, emotionaly that takes a lot from me, but I am ok, because I can still write and I am owner of my own mind.

Useless 15/11/06(Fri)08:47 No. 807 [Reply]

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Guys im really high. i just branded myself (pic related) what do i do now my parents are gonna see it. is there anyway to undo this?

Useless 15/11/06(Fri)10:22 No. 808

You didn't burn through the skin, and it doesn't look like it's going to blister, so it probably won't leave a permanent mark. More importantly, you just got high and tried to brand yourself... Your parents obviously aren't paying enough attention to ever notice the little burns on your hand.

Useless 15/11/08(Sun)20:26 No. 815

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This was posted on 8chan

Useless 15/11/11(Wed)10:09 No. 825

Niggertits, too.

Useless 15/09/22(Tue)10:06 No. 723 [Reply]

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I'm fucked up

1. Abuse adderal on an almost daily basis (think 40mg)
2. Just made a sextape with a hidden camera
3. Can't make financial decisions, about to be homeless

Useless 15/10/15(Thu)16:43 No. 768

Sell the sextape, use the money to hire an accountant, give them your aderall so they can stay up all night fixing your shit.

Useless 15/10/24(Sat)22:27 No. 779

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Become the mountain man, be homeless, give handjobs for Adderal.

Useless 15/11/10(Tue)10:54 No. 822

Do you have ADHD? Not just because of the adderall, but because the other 2 are both pretty good behavioral indicators of adult ADHD. If so, you should definitely get in to see a psychologist (with a medical degree, not just just psychiatric/counseling training). They can get you on something less addictive than adderall that can still help you feel like everyday life is manageable.

Girlfriend's guyfriends Unknown 15/07/16(Thu)04:19 No. 594 [Reply]

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Can't stand my girlfriend having other guy friends, especially ones that she has dated.

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Useless 15/09/24(Thu)00:28 No. 729

If you think she is cheating on you, your relationship is probably shit anyway. Either she is cheating on you, or she isn't but you are too paranoid to trust her.

Either she is a cheating hobag, or you are an insecure twat.

Useless 15/09/29(Tue)18:51 No. 738

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I dunno, man, I use them for free food and orbiter spots. No use sleeping with someone I already ditched for someone who is better. :))))

Useless 15/11/10(Tue)10:41 No. 821

Yes, that is what is almost always happening in this kind of situation. You get a sense of validation knowing you can exploit their attachment or desire and still have them stick around putting up with it. It works both ways, on the previous boyfriends and on the current one. It feels good to know he still wants you, even though you put your past disloyalty on parade for everyone to see.

You probably grew up resenting your mom or a sister over your dad's affection for them.

This a recommendation to do the exact same thing, but pretend it isn't cowardly. Brad Pitt wouldn't be famous if he needed this kind of bullshit to feel confident.

Leave. She is not ready to be in a relationship that isn't just a prop for her self-esteem. If you aren't that emotionally attached, maybe just accept it and enjoy the sex, but if you are, you really need to break up.

Useless 15/11/01(Sun)19:31 No. 798 [Reply]

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I'm throwing my iPhone 5S.. Shitphone.
What do you guys recommend? I've been thinking on the
Oneplus X, 250 dollars. Very stylish. I miss Android goddamn!

Useless 15/11/01(Sun)19:55 No. 799

This isn't a self help question it's more of a retarded question.

Meloncholy 15/11/08(Sun)09:08 No. 814

I always avoid any phone that is:
1. New and not yet broken in by a prior owner.
2. Priced more than $10.
3. Has a touchscreen.

Current phone was $5.00 with the charger and been using it for about four years now. Have only replaced the battery one time so far but will need to again soon as it isn't holding much charge at present time.

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