If it's a one time thing let it slide, if not call them out on it when you're in a public place and they'll promptly stop. Something like "Dude stop touching yourself, it's like you've got crabs or something." normally works.

Alternatively do the same but more blatantly in their face. If you're sitting somewhere, get up to leave, turn your cotch to their face and adjust away till they get the message.

>>16612
And sometimes, if you're _really_ good, you can even make her kill /herself/. Which is, uh, good news, you know...

>>16612
Oddly enough, I did pull that. About two months or so after all that happened,I didn't tell her it was her fault or anything because there were several things going on at that point, but she was a contributor. Then she didn't really try to talk me out of it. It was a very half-hearted attempt on her end so I just left and went to be emo all by myself. Finally got out of that with some bros helping me out.

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>>16645
>Finally got out of that with some bros helping me out
at the gay bar?

>>16587
Yes, I enjoyed talking to you as well and wish you the very best of luck. It saddens me that we only seem to find like-minded people in places such as this. Although perhaps it's for the best.

Oh, and I read Crime and Punishment. It left a fairly heavy feeling, to be honest, that's the best I can describe it. The unpleasant psychological state of the protagonist is conveyed very well. I feel like I've experienced that many times.


>>16588
Your story certainly is a great lesson, but of course, I've heard many like it. Personally, my problem, at least as far as I know, lies in the utter lack of motivation and belief in myself, or, rather in the fact that good things can happen to me.

Of course, that outlook is completely irrational, but it has halted me from being persistent in my attempts to achieve something. I can barely force myself to start studying because I think that even if I study, I will fail. I guess it's a result of the trauma I experienced back in HS and early university days when I realized the same thing as you did - that I'm not better than everyone by default. And of course, after that came the inevitable conclusion that I must be worse, because I never saw myself as equal to others.

I still try. A lot. But the lack of motivation is showing. Ultimately, I want to just go to sleep and get woken up only when there's good news. Academics was all I had and now I am a complete failure compared to almost any other human being. It's a very ironic position to be in if the main thing you want is power.

I won't stop of course, too late to stop now. And your advice is solid, but hey, I knew it already. It's the action that matters. I would swear on anything that if I could, if I fucking could force myself to, I would work day and night. There's no higher virtue in my mind. All achievement is only 5%(if not less) talent and 95% work.

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>>16589
I could easily have fallen into the same hole, and very nearly did. What got me was being fired from my buger-flipping job by my ultra-feminist, fat, dyke boss for not treating every word she slobbered out of her crusty lips as the command of a queen. I realized I'd most certainly kill myself within the year if I were doomed to spend my life with creatures such as this; if I was to go on living I'd have to get into a higher class of humans, which meant completing University.

My desperation became my motivation.

>>16595
Hm, you know, that helped me. I think I'll go back to your post from time to time to remind myself.

Right now I'm doing well, but hell, negative motivation can still work.

>>16131
It's those casually applied, easily stuck on nicknames that cause the most pain.

dude making fun of someones name?
who the fuck does that anymore? people who live with their grandma? that insult is so old you degrade yourself when you use it dont worry just say, is that all you got? it will work.

>>15996
"And do you, Bethany, take Anal to be..."

>18 year old senior
I hate you too, fucking retard.

>>16570

Fuck you and your motherfucking momma. Fucking cunt.

>>16501
So in other words, your "boyfriend" has the 100 mile rule in effect.

You're just the woman he hangs out with when he's not hanging out with all the other women who are in other areas.

Hope you enjoy being used. Maybe when you're older and he discards you, you'll realize why it's foolish for multiple women to chase after the same guy.

>>16501
He fucks her, or he will fuck her, because he knows you won't leave him even if you find out. He thinks of you as a comfy couch or a warm bed: great to come home to, but not the only place to kick off one's boots.

Frankly, I would do this to you as well, but I would be open about it. Would that be better for you?

Also, what is your first language?

Fuck move in with me id stay with you i wouldnt get bored of you.

Not really. Life goes on. At least you're getting one, be it this year or next. Most aren't lucky/diligent enough...top dicking around and buckle down, man!

>>16046
See, the thing is that I'm studying in another country and keeping me here comes at some financial duress to my family.

So yeah, I either succeed or I don't even know what's gonna happen.

>>16048
Was in your position a little while ago (almost exactly the same); now 20 years old (I actually just turned 20 an hour ago. Huh.) and living at home, having completed zero educational qualifications since leaving high school two years ago.

I'm not gonna lie, it's really shit and you seriously don't want to turn into me. However, fortunately, at least in my case, even so late in the game it is turn-around-able.

All Imma say is good luck, Anon.

>>16508
>Hiring/firing decisions (like all decisions in Valve) are made by collective decision making of employees. GabeN is a parasite on the company that drains it's resources on him trying to lose weight or seem cool or whatever (reminds me of some of the admins here). He holds the company holds it back.
Please tell me English is not your first language.

>>16508
While I know you're basing your entire knowledge of Valve off internet rumors and the Valve handbook, you have to understand something very fundamental... most video game companies, at least the ones that aren't run like EA (heretofore known as perpetual overtime hell stuffed with multiple managers for every employee who in turn get stuffed into featureless cubicles), are in fact run like Valve. They're built around teams. And, yes, teams are fluid, with people coming and going from teams all the time. Products are created by teams. There isn't something mystical and magical going on in Valve, it's just... normal. The only real difference is that Valve is larger.

But just because you have a lot of teams constantly in a state of flux doesn't mean there isn't a management structure built over those teams. Teams are really good at producing product, but not so good at mundane details like fixing a leaky roof in such a way that it meets local building codes, or that regulations regarding payroll, employee disclosure, financials (since Steam accepts credit card payments, they're subject to many financial regulations), or getting the best health care plan options, etc. are met and organized and presented.

You do peer reviews, you do performance evaluations, you do all this sundry bullshit that isn't really your job but you put up with it because it's the only way you can actually do your job, but... there's still someone in HR keeping track of your vacation days. There's still a legion of accountants making sure accounts receivable and accounts payable and everything else beancountery gets done - and done on time. Valve Time is nice and all, but nobody's going to accept that bullshit for why paychecks weren't deposited on schedule.

The employee handbook doesn't mention any of this because the handbook isn't for the grunts. The handbook is for programmers and artists and designers and all the other "productive" parts of a software company. There's not a single thing in there about firing because while those decisions are based off peer reviews and the like, the decision is made by management.

So please quiet your little pie hole about the evils of organizational structure and how your little one-man cocksucking operation is going to be the downfall of hierarchically run industries everywhere. You'll be out of business after all the corners you're cutting cause an accident that, if you're lucky, you'll survive from. Despite what mommy and daddy told you, you're not special.

>>16509
sounds to me like a second-generation wetback hired to do the job of a professional for half the salary; probably got pissed off when the company went under anyway, leaving him and the rest of their uneducated, out-sourced rabble with dirt in their pockets because they never bothered to learn the language their contracts were written in.

>>16440
Inversely, no one's going to be impregnating her crazy ass, so she will die off, and hopefully take a few other gullible idiots with her. We could stand to lose a few.

>>16340
>RAPE TIME IT'S
Either the top two panels are backward, or the text bubbles are backward. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS, MANGA TRANSLATORS.

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>>16469
Considering you can't see his face in the top right panel, he could very well be continuing the same expression from the left panel. And she could have turned to face him from the upper left to upper right.

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Purge the weak from the genepool. Scratch that she already had kids.

Don't worry, OP. You avoided a decade of misery, not being married to her and having to ay for her cost of living, raising her kids, and then finding out she was cheating on you the whole time with random guys she meets in bars, lying about nearly everything in her life, and running off with half your house and your life savings, & sending you a huge bill every month until the last kid turns 18.

Most suicides are unavoidable because a lot of people dont express their emotions to others even loved ones until its to late dont drag about her suicide but you can mourn her being gone.also dont think about the whole religious aspect its all fake.